Forget having a great day

So my boyfriend and I were emailing eachother since he's at work.  He asks me if I want to go to the bar tonight since its my b-day.  He says that he doesn't have any money so I would have to pay for the both of us.  I said no and then changed my mind.  I decided that I wanted to go to this bar right down the street cause they are the only one's around here that serve "Red Hoe" (great drink), and he says no that he wants to go to this small bar that's 20 mins away.  Then he tells me that his mom is coming over tonight to see the cats b/c she hasn't seen them yet and that I need to clean the house better than I usually do.  What the hell?  I'm not trying to be a brat or anything but today's my day.  Shouldn't I get something?  Don't I deserve to pick what bar I want to go to?  For goodness sake I have to pay!  Grrrrrrr!  Apparently he doesn't care about my b-day.  I don't get one day of the year the I can say "this is my day".  Everyday is his day.  This really sucks!